Books

Would You Allow Yourself to Fall In Love With Someone 19 Years Younger?

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I just finished the hilarious and intriguing book, “Younger” by Pamela Redmond Satran. It’s about a newly divorced 44-y.o. housewife who creates a new life by posing as a younger, twenty-something version of herself.

According to this book, losing weight, wearing tight jeans and getting some highlights is all it takes! Inclusive of token 25 y.o. boyfriend who’s hot like a rockstar and who adores you like a puppy ๐Ÿ˜€

Read more here.

The main character’s experience of this new ‘younger’ version of herself is both stimulating and eye-opening. Thankfully, she has her bestie Maggie to encourage and help her navigate through it. In the end, everything wraps up neatly like a fairy tale ๐Ÿ™‚ Except for the much younger boyfriend, who the author conveniently sends off to Japan, reduced to exchanging romantic emails with the main character.

I really don’t know, 19 years seems like a lot. And while I sense that the book is encouraging the main character to not sacrifice today for what might happen tomorrow, she is wise to wonder.ย  Isn’t it a sign of maturityย  to alsoย  think of consequences and not just YOLO all the way? I don’t think I can play with my heart and peace of mind like that ๐Ÿ™„ Could you and would you?

Favorite lines:

“It was as if I’d dived into an ocean that had looked fun and exciting from the shore, but had found myself getting knocked down by waves that up close proved far too wild for me.ย  All I could think about was making my way back to the sand.”

“Suppose I came out as fourty-four to the entire world.ย  Wouldn’t it still make sense for me to try to look as youthful as I possibly could?”

Read if:

You’re a woman – regardless of age – who’s wondering about the romantic trajectory of her life.

Fitness & Vanities

Do You Know Your Eye Shape?

I’m learning how to do eye make-up and realized, half-way through the process, that you need to start with identifying your eye shape.ย  Duh!

After watching a handfull of YouTube vids – some of them have conflicting information unfortunately – I finally understood that I have hooded eyes.ย  Eureka moment! ๐Ÿ™‚

Well, at least now I can focus on what works for me.